The Pros & Cons of having a First Look

A "first look" is a private moment between the couple where they see each other for the first time on their wedding day before the actual ceremony takes place. This is typically a carefully orchestrated event, often with the presence of a photographer and sometimes a videographer to capture the genuine reactions and emotions of the couple. People have different opinions on this, but here is our hot take on the pros & cons of doing one.

The Pros

Emotional Intimacy: A first look allows the couple to share a private and emotional moment together before the ceremony. It's a chance to express their feelings and reactions without the pressure of an audience. Seeing each other before the ceremony can help ease nerves and anxiety. The couple can support each other and find comfort in each other's presence.

Extended Photography Time: Having a first look can extend the amount of time available for wedding photos. This can result in a wider variety of shots and more relaxed portraits since there's no rush. With a first look, you can potentially schedule some group and couple photos before the ceremony, freeing up more time for socializing with guests during the cocktail hour.

Efficient Reception Transition: After the ceremony, the couple can move directly to the reception, as they've already had their private moment and some photos taken. This can help maintain the momentum of the day's events.

The Cons

Tradition and Surprise: Some couples value the tradition of seeing each other for the first time at the ceremony. A first look may take away the surprise and anticipation of that moment.

Rushed Preparation: Preparing for a first look involves additional hair, makeup, and wardrobe preparations. This can make the morning feel busier and potentially increase stress levels. Scheduling a first look requires careful time management to ensure the couple and their guests have enough time to get ready and for pre-ceremony activities. A first look can alter the flow of the wedding day. It might mean earlier preparations and a longer stretch of time between the first look and the ceremony.

Privacy Concerns: While a first look is private compared to the ceremony, it still involves the presence of photographers and videographers. Some couples may prefer a completely private moment.

The decision to have a first look is a personal one and can depend on the couple's preferences, cultural traditions, and the overall timeline of the day. It's a beautiful way to create a private, emotional moment amidst the whirlwind of wedding preparations and celebrations, capturing raw emotions that can later be cherished through photographs and videos…clearly we have an opinion :)

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